I wrote this reply to the following blog entry. I'm posting it here because I don't expect that she'll publish it. It is kind of sad. She wants so desperately to find a way out.
http://kasperkwan.wordpress.com/2011/07/20/i-didnt-want-anything-to-do-with-desteni/</p>
You were looking for a way out and Desteni/EMS presented an attractive option and instant circle of friends and family. It feels good to belong to something and believe in something but you have to know that you were/are vulnerable and Desteni is tailor-made to take advantage if that vulnerability. Desteni isn't what they make themselves out to be. They are not benign or philolanthrophic. Ask yourself how much it costs to be saved and accepted. Both in money and in loss of control of your own life.
Try to disagree with them publically and you'll see just how fast and viciously they turn their backs on you and add you to the list. <\blockquote>